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Family scapegoats with years of healing: what events or thoughts precipitated your full acceptance of your family's narcissistic dynamic? Can you share your inner thoughts as you reached it? How do we know when we have reached full acceptance?

16.06.2025 00:04

Family scapegoats with years of healing: what events or thoughts precipitated your full acceptance of your family's narcissistic dynamic? Can you share your inner thoughts as you reached it? How do we know when we have reached full acceptance?

Your life is better in every single way without them.

In that sense, acceptance is strongly related to building awareness.

Recognizing the darkness in yourself allows you to see it very clearly in others. A narcissist is consumed with darkness. That is: deceit, sadism, and ego.

How do teachers justify punishing a student for fighting back against their bullies?

They don't love you.

You will never be enough no matter what you do. At best, they will make backhanded compliments or just ignore you.

They enjoy hurting you.

Why cant I stop thinking about counsellor between sessions?

You don't owe them anything.

The most important things to realize:

You’ll know you've reached full acceptance when you receive a hoover and send it straight to spam/trash without an emotional reaction, or a second thought about it.

Are there any political parties or groups that have a mix of conservative and liberal beliefs? Why are they not as prominent in the media?

When you recognize your own darkness, you will see it in them, and see them for who they actually are as people. Then it will become easy to drop them from your life.

The family's “in group” do not have intimate relationships. They are transactional and look down on each other. In other words, you aren't missing anything.